Big Fracking Surprise. So why do I still feel so bad.
Maybe you readers (the two of you) would have an opinion on this. I will be starting a new job on June 15th. My RE seems to think if all goes well I could start stimming CD3 and that means if all works perfectly (and really when does it ever?) I could have ER on June 13th. That means no showing up late for a new job. No missing work for Retriv. It would mean going in to a new job saying "hey, i scheduled a procedure before I got this job. I will be taking two days off (for transfer...they don't need to know why).
If I don't do this I have NO idea when I'll have another chance at IVF. I guess next hiatus which is in roughly 9 months.
Here is the reason to not do it. My DH's cousin's wedding is the weekend of the 13th. It's cross country. It is also another chance my DH can see his dying father. He could go and freeze his goods but how sad will ER be without him? I can't make him stay with me. But boy I wish he would.
I guess our other option is we take a break. I thought I could handle that, but just talking to my RE I'm feel like "What's next? Let's go go go!" But seriously. This isn't fair to my husband. He is dealing with a DYING FATHER. He doesn't need more shit on his plate. I think I'm being selfish. What's a few months off? A few pressureless months where I get used to work and he doesn't have to choose between the people he loves.